Showing posts with label joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label joy. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Choosing Fun Over Drudgery

This is a sermon that I preached on Sunday, April 29 at United Presbyterian Church, Sterling, KS.  Listen to the audio here.

Read Psalm 150 & Nehemiah 8 here.

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Today we’re talking about fun.  Fun helps us thrive, and is a symptom of thriving. Some of you are a little worried about what I might do or say in my sermon today.  Some of you are sure it’s going to be all puns.  It won’t be ALL puns.

But did you know that God’s first name is Andy?  
That’s why we sing that song, “Andy walks with me, Andy talks with me…”[1]

I do like to tell jokes, and I like to have fun.  Who in here does not like to have fun?

Our session has been pondering ways to complete this sentence:
This is a place where…. 
How would you finish that statement?  One I’m proposing today is this: This is a place where people are having fun.
Many people think you can’t have fun in church.  But you can.  And we do!

Why does having fun matter?

·     #1 Because fun is fun. 
Fun means enjoyment!  One definition says that
“Fun is an experience that is often unexpected, informal, and/or purposeless,”[2]

…which is why some of us have trouble having fun.  

Fun matters…
·      #2 Because the Bible encourages us to have fun.
The word fun is not in the Bible, except in the Message version, but the word joy appears hundreds of times.  The Bible is a joyful book. Christianity is an exuberant and happy faith.[3]
1 Thess 5:16 commands us to “Rejoice always!”
Psalm 100 encourages us to “Make a joyful noise to the Lord!”
Psalm 150 is a recipe for some raucous joy!  This psalm lists all the instruments known to the ancients . . . In other words, no musical instrument was too loud, too clanging, too clashing, or too “vulgar” to praise the amazing God of Israel.[4]

Fun matters . . .
#3 Because fun is good for us.
We’ve probably all heard the phrase “Laughter is the best medicine.”
Proverbs 17:22 says, "A cheerful heart is good medicine."
Science proves it. Laughter releases endorphins and relieves stress.[5]  Studies show that without fun in our lives, we are more likely to be unhealthy, and are less successful in our jobs and at school, and are more likely to commit criminal acts.[6]

Back in the 1960’s Charles Whitman, a seemingly normal 25-year-old engineering student at the University of Texas in Austin, went to the top of a tower that overlooked the campus and started shooting. Over the next three hours he killed 17 people and wounded 41 others.  It was later discovered that just before going to the tower, he had also killed his wife and his mother.  The governor of Texas at the time commissioned a team of experts to look into the reasons Whitman would have done this. Dr. Stuart Brown, a psychiatrist at the Baylor College of Medicine, was on that commission. One of their striking discoveries was that Whitman as a child was not allowed to play with other kids.  His tyrannical father had systematically suppressed the child’s natural playfulness.  When we play, we learn to deal with the unexpected, which prepares us to deal with stress.  Whitman didn’t have that.[7]

This finding prompted Brown to devote his life to studying the benefits of play. He founded The National Institute for Play, and has spent years cataloging data about the impact of play on people’s lives.  He’s consistently found a high correlation between play and success, and higher tendency toward violence where play has been absent.[8] 

Play is good for us, it’s fun, and the Bible encourages it.  It’s also good for our world…
#4 Because fun is contagious.
When we’re having fun, it helps other people have fun.  Laughter spreads, just like yawns.

Fun matters . . . 
#5 Because encountering God, following Jesus and being inspired by the Holy Spirit is fun if we let it be.
I’ve been asking people all week about this.  I even posted the question on Facebook.  What’s the most fun you’ve had in church or at a church-related activity?  It’s been a lot of fun hearing the answers.  They’re quite different.  What about you?  What’s your answer?

One answer surprised me a little.  The person said the most fun they’d had was at a retreat having communion after they’d just learned more about the deeper meaning of the sacrament.  Encountering God in a deeper way is an amazing way to have fun.  It’s the kind of fun I most want us to be having together as a church.  And the more we let the Holy Spirit work among us, the more we will have that kind of fun, because I know God longs to bless us.
Isaiah 30:18 “Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the Lord is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!”

That’s what’s happening in Nehemiah. In many Bibles, this section we from read today is titled, “the revival of worship.” After centuries of disobeying God, Israel is conquered by their enemies and carried off to Babylon.  Jerusalem and the temple are destroyed, and the people live in the Babylonian exile for 70 years.  Now they have been allowed to return, and they have come back in stages.  First one group, then several years later another.  They have worked on rebuilding the temple, and rebuilding the city.  Now they are gathered to hear the words of scripture read to them by the priests. They also heard the word interpreted. 

This worship service was a bit longer than ours.  Six hours!  Which reminds me of one of the worst problems with ancient orators – they tended to Babylon.[9] (Get it?  Babble on.  They just came back from Babylon.) 

This is the first time many of them have heard these words.  They are sad to discover how far off track they’ve gotten with God.  They are ashamed.  But God is giving them a fresh start, a chance to change their ways and be God’s people again – repentance, reform, revival.  So the priests tell them, “Don’t be sad over what’s happened in the past.  Instead give thanks to God for this new start.  Rejoice!  Eat the fat and drink the wine, and share with everyone! In other words, enjoy God and enjoy this new life.  And so they do.

We, too, are given a fresh start with God every time we realize our sin, and return to God.  Jesus has paid the penalty for our sin, and God freely gives us grace and forgiveness.  Sometimes, though, we look as if he hasn’t.  We punish ourselves.  But Jesus already took our punishment.  We are to enjoy grace and enjoy God! We need fun in our lives.  God made us to enjoy life.

What are some ways we can choose fun over drudgery?

Take time to laugh, and especially to laugh at ourselves. 
This is the advice given by two spiritual giants, Archbishop Desmond Tutu and His Holiness the Dalai Lama in their book, “The Book of Joy.”  They are both men who smile and laugh a lot, even though they have both had great struggles in their lives. 

Archbishop Tutu is from South Africa where he experienced the horrors of apartheid.  The Dalai Lama had to flee from his country as a teenager because the Chinese invaded, and has lived in exile every since.  And yet they smile and laugh, and say that humor has helped them in so many difficult situations. 

The Archbishop visited Rwanda shortly after the genocide there, and was asked to give a talk to the two sides, the Hutus and the Tutsis.  He wondered how to talk about such a fresh wound.  His solution was to speak truth to power through humor.  He told a story about the big-nose people and the small-nose people and how the big-nose people were excluding the small-nose people.  The people in the audience were laughing, and suddenly realized that he was talking about the ridiculousness of prejudice and hatred. He got them laughing at themselves.[10]

Share the joy  - joy is multiplied when it’s shared and…
People are drawn to joy.  One of my favorite scenes from the movie “Elf” is when his new friend Jovie remembers that Buddy had told her that the best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear.  They need more Christmas cheer because that’s what powers Santa’s sleigh. So she starts singing.  And then someone else starts singing with her. And soon the whole crowd is singing, and the Christmas cheer meter in Santa’s sleigh starts rising higher and higher until it’s fully powered up.

It works even when it’s not Christmas.  The dwarves in Snow White taught us to whistle while we work. Mary Poppins encourages the children to sing while they do their chores.

The Spirit works among us as we sing together, and especially as we sing with all our hearts. Zeph 3:17 says that God rejoices over us with singing. The word used for singing there is also often translated as joy.  (Rinna means both joy and singing.) Joy and singing go together.

Look for joy in small things by being thankful.
My daughter told me this week that she found joy in an expected place when she discovered that the restaurant at which she was having lunch had bendy straws.  It’s a small thing, but it brought her joy.  It’s often finding joy in unexpected ways that prompts us to laugh.

I’ve talked before about the connection between thankfulness and joy.  Joy is embedded in thankfulness.  The Greek word for being thankful is eucharisteo.  The word for joy is chara.  Eucharisteo has joy right there in the middle. Eucharisteo.  I’m sure that’s why Paul puts them all together in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18:
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who are in Christ Jesus.”
So let’s look for the fun – bendy straws, flamingos, balloons, beach balls, puns.  God wants us to enjoy life and to enjoy Him!  In fact, the Westminster Catechism spells it out quite nicely. Our purpose is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever!

Encountering God IS fun, in all the ways we’ve mentioned and more. As we trust God and follow Jesus, the Holy Spirit works in us.  When the Holy Spirit stirs our hearts, we have the most amazing kind of joy – joy that is encouraging, and strengthening, and contagious.  That’s what the priests were encouraging the people to know in our story from Nehemiah – that the joy of the Lord is our strength (Neh 8:10).  The joy of the Lord is our life.  The joy of the Lord makes us thrive.

This is a place where people have fun because this is a place where people are finding Jesus, receiving grace, and experiencing the work of the Holy Spirit in new ways.

I’m excited and thankful for all the ways we have yet to discover to have fun and enjoy God together!



[1] From a Family Circus cartoon
[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fun
[3] Nixon, Paul. I Refuse to Lead a Dying Church! (Kindle Locations 643-648). Pilgrim Press/United Church Press. Kindle Edition.
[10] His Holiness The Dalai Lama, Archbishop Desmond Tutu, with Douglas Abrams – The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World (New York, Avery: 2016), 218.

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Magnificent Joy

This is a sermon that was preached on Sunday, December 17, 2017 at United Presbyterian Church, Sterling KS.
Listen here.  Listen to choir anthem here.
Read Luke 1:46-55, Isaiah 61 here.

Joy.  Such a little word and a big concept.  Joy is expressed in so many different ways.  One of my favorites is what happens when someone surprises us with an unexpected gift.  Kids especially go crazy expressing their joy, jumping around, yelling and cheering.  The joyful expressions on their faces bring us joy. One of the remarkable things about joy is that it can make us want to dance and shout, or stun us into silence, or even make us cry.  

Our scripture reading from Luke today is Mary’s song of joy.  Luke doesn’t tell us whether she was dancing or singing exuberantly, or sitting quietly expressing her joy in prayer.  Psalm 16:11 tells us that in God’s presence there is fullness of joy.  Mary has seen God’s hand at work in her life, and sings for joy at God’s presence with her.

Mary sings from the depths of her heart.  “My soul magnifies the lord.”  She is praising God with all her heart, soul, mind and strength!  God has done great things and her faith has been deepened and strengthened.  Mary has had a visit from the Angel Gabriel with some amazing news, but it’s interesting to note that Mary’s song doesn’t happen right after the visit from the angel.  What prompts her song is her visit with her cousin Elizabeth, so let’s look at how this happens.

Luke tells us in chapter 1 that two surprising and seemingly impossible things will happen.  The angel announces both of these things to Mary. The angel Gabriel comes to Mary and tells her that she is to bear a child even though she is an unmarried virgin. And not just any child.  The angel says,
“He will be very great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his ancestor David. And he will reign over Israel forever; his Kingdom will never end!” (1:32-33 NLT)

The angel uses titles and phrases that the prophets have used so that Mary would recognize that this baby was to be the long-awaited messiah.[1]

Then the angel has more news:
“What’s more, your relative Elizabeth has become pregnant in her old age! People used to say she was barren, but she has conceived a son and is now in her sixth month.” (1:36 NLT)
Two miraculous babies.

But we have no hint of any doubt from Mary.  She says, “May it be as you have said” (1:38). She believed the angel, and went immediately to visit her cousin Elizabeth to celebrate.[2]  If she had found Elizabeth was NOT pregnant, Mary might have then wondered if she had imagined that whole conversation with the angel, but Elizabeth IS pregnant, just as the angel had said, and this confirms for Mary all that the angel told her.  This is what prompts her song of joy. Mary’s faith and trust in God to fulfill all his promises is strengthened.

We are seeing at work here exactly what Psalm 16:11 tells us:
In God’s presence there is fullness of joy.
When something happens to confirm for us that God is present with us, we find joy.
The 19th century Jesuit priest and philosopher Pierre Teilhard de Chardin says it this way: “Joy is the most infallible sign of the presence of God.”

God is always with us, but we are not always aware of his presence.  Signs help us see and know that God is at work in our world. 
A priest and a pastor stood near a sharp curve on a busy road holding signs. “The end is near!” read the priest’s sign, while the pastor’s warned, “Turn around before it’s too late!”
As a car passed by, the driver yelled “Idiots!” Then he blasted his horn, raised one finger and stomped on the gas. Moments later the clerics heard the sound of screeching tires, followed by a big splash. The priest turned to the pastor and said, “Maybe we should change our signs to ‘Warning: Bridge Out’.”[3]

Signs can be unexpected.  Earlier in this same chapter, the Angel Gabriel came to speak to Zechariah, Elizabeth’s husband, and to tell him that Elizabeth would have a baby.  Zechariah asked for a sign. “How will I know that this is so?” (1:18)  Zechariah asked because he didn’t believe what the angel said. With Zechariah, the angel gets angry. “You want a sign?  I’ll give you a sign.  Here you go.  Now you won’t be able to speak until after the baby is born.”  And that is exactly what happened. Zechariah doesn’t speak again until the day that baby John is being circumcised (Luke 1:64).
When God promised Noah and his family that the earth would never again be destroyed by a flood, God gave them the sign of the rainbow as confirmation of that promise. “I have set my bow in the clouds, and it shall be a sign of the covenant between me and the earth” (Gen. 9:13).

When God was first commissioning Moses to go back to Egypt and lead the people out of slavery, God gave Moses a sign that would confirm that God was with them. He said, “I will be with you; and this shall be the sign for you that it is I who sent you: when you have brought the people out of Egypt, you shall worship God on this mountain.” (Ex. 3:12)  After they escape from Egypt into the desert, they do come back to the mountain and meet with God (Exodus 19:16-17).[4]

Throughout the Bible we find God giving signs as markers for people to help confirm that their faith was real.[5]  God speaks to us through our circumstances[6], and when our circumstances confirm our faith in the presence of God, we experience joy like Mary’s joy that prompted her song.  The feeling of joy becomes part of the confirmation, a sign of God’s presence with us.

We do not rely on signs alone.  For Mary, there is more than just the circumstance of finding that Elizabeth is pregnant.  There are the words from the angel.  There are also the words of scripture.  It is evident from Mary’s song that she is familiar with the words of the prophets. Her song is similar to the words from Isaiah 61 that we read as we lit the Advent candles this morning, and Mary speaks of the promises that God made to Israel through Abraham and the prophets.  

We find joy in realizing God’s work and presence is not just in us as individuals, but also for all people.  Mary’s song reflects a similar understanding.  She begins rejoicing about what God has done for her individually, but then expands into the ways that God is working throughout the generations.  The second half of her song recognizes the ways that God does the unexpected, scattering the proud, bringing down the powerful, lifting up the lowly and filling the hungry.  She speaks of these things as eternal truths about the way God has worked in the past, is working in the present, and will continue working in the future.[7] God had promised salvation to Israel, and told Abraham that all the nations of the earth would be blessed through him.  Now that promise will be fulfilled through this baby that Mary will carry.

Mary expresses in her song themes that we see throughout Luke and throughout the Bible.  God uses insignificant people to do significant things.  God lifts up the lowly, and brings down the proud.  When we see these things happening, when we see wrongs being righted, our hope is renewed.  These are signs of God’s presence among us.  These are reasons for joy.  And they are things that are seemingly impossible.  But with God, all things are possible.  When God does the impossible or the unexpected, we respond with joy.

Maybe the most amazing thing about joy is that it can co-exist with sorrow, and this is one of the big ways that joy is different from happiness.  This is expressed so beautifully in the animated movie Inside Out.  The characters in this movie are the emotions that live inside the head of a 12-yr-old girl named Riley.  There is fear, anger, disgust, sadness and joy.  My favorite character, and the one who most often is in control, is Joy. But when Riley and her family move to a new city, Sadness and Fear and Anger become more active. Joy struggles to stay in charge and manage the other emotions.  The one that challenges her the most is Sadness.  Everything Sadness touches turns blue.  So Joy decides the best way to stop this is to isolate and contain Sadness. She draws a circle on the floor and tells Sadness that she must stay in the circle.  As you might expect, that doesn’t work, Sadness keeps touching things.


What the characters in the movie learn is that we can’t just get rid of sadness, but in the midst of it we find joy not by pushing away sadness, but by acknowledging it[8] and recognizing that God with us even in our sadness.

God is in our midst.  Through faith in Jesus Christ, by the power of the Holy Spirit, God lives in us. He is always with us.  Recognizing his presence brings us joy.  Our joy becomes part of our witness to the world of God’s presence.

There was a woman who had been very angry in her youth.  She became a Christian and was excited to give her parents a 50th anniversary party because it would be an opportunity to show friends and family how God was working in her life.  She prayed that God would use this day to reveal the changes in her.  She lived over an hour away from the party venue, so she made sure to get ready in plenty of time, taking great care to do her hair and makeup, but when she grabbed the hairspray to give her hair one last spray, she accidentally grabbed the bug spray instead.  Quickly she showered again, but didn’t have time to do her hair again.  As she was driving, she discovered that there was something wrong with her car and it was overheating, so she turned off the air conditioning.  The problem continued, so she had to stop several times to allow the car to cool down.  By the time she got to the party, she was late, and sweaty, and her hair was frizzy.  She went to the bathroom to freshen up and discovered that the heat had exploded one of the items in her bag and everything was covered in white goop.  All she could do was just go out and enjoy the party. Later, in telling the story to her parents, she told them how disappointed she was that she hadn’t made the good impression she’d hoped to make, and for which she had prayed for God’s help.  Her mother helped her see the day differently.  “You used to be so angry about everything.  Today you handled all the difficulties with humor and grace. Despite your troubles, you were a joy. God answered your prayer and allowed you to show how he’s changed your life.”[9]

Joy is the infallible sign of the presence of God.  Our joy is a sign to others of God’s presence.  Mary’s joy as expressed in her song in Luke has inspired people throughout the ages.

Jesus himself is our sign of God’s presence.  When the angels came to tell the shepherds about Jesus’ birth, they gave them a sign.  “This will be a sign for you: you will find a child wrapped in bands of cloth and lying in a manger” (Luke 2:12).  That is exactly what they found when they went to find the child,[10] and they went out to tell everyone the joyful news.

There was college student doing an internship as a chaplain at a hospital.  It’s a tough internship at first because the student has very little training before they start visiting patients and their families.  In one of this chaplain’s visits, she walked into a room where a man sat beside the bed of his wife who was unconscious.  The man had just been told that his wife had very little time left.  He was angry at God and not much interested in talking to the chaplain.  He told her, “Unless you can tell me where God is in this, you can leave.”  The chaplain stood there unsure what to do or say.  She said a silent prayer.  “God, help me.”  And suddenly she was overcome by the man’s grief and she began to weep.  In that moment, through that chaplain, the man was able to see that God was there weeping with him.[11]  The joy in that moment was not happy or exuberant or prompting cheers or song, but it came with hope and comfort and peace, the fullness of joy that God’s presence brings.

Advent and Christmas are all about celebrating the wonderful gift of Immanuel, God with us, God always with us. God sent us his son so that we would know the joy of salvation and be forever able to enjoy his presence. May you know more and more deeply the fullness of his presence and the greatness of his joy.




[2] Fred Craddock, Interpretation: Luke (Westminster John Knox Press)
[4] For more discussion of that event read here: http://www.crivoice.org/biblestudy/exodus/bbex28.html
[5] VanGemeren, New International Dictionary of OT Theology & Exegesis, Vol. 1, p. 331-3
[6] Henry Blackaby & Claude King expand on this in their book Experiencing God (Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 1994), 184ff.
[7] Fred Craddock, in Interpretation: Luke (Louisville: John Knox Press, 1990), page 30, points out the verbs are aorist which in Greek expresses what is timelessly true.
[10] Were bands of cloth unusual?  No, but the manger was. https://www.byunewtestamentcommentary.com/what-on-earth-are-swaddling-clothes/
[11] Borrowed from Roger Nishioka who told a similar story to the Presbytery of the New Covenant at one of it’s meetings in 2015.