Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Why I Like Love Stories

Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
 --Ephesians 5:1-2

What kind of books do you like to read?  I read a wide variety of genres, and a lot of non-fiction because I'm a pastor and it's sort of a job requirement, but when I just need to relax and recharge, I like love stories, and here's why:

1.  Love stories remind me to feel.  When I'm running around doing business, my head supersedes my heart.  I'm all work and no play.  I start to forget what it feels like to love, to have passion, to care deeply.  Love stories remind me to let my heart be a part of my thoughts and my actions.

2.  Love stories remind me to live passionately, and that passionate living is not easy but it's worth the trouble.  The main character in a love story I read recently expresses her frustration with only having a part-time relationship:
"I want it all, not just an hour a night of feeling like I'm the queen of the whole world.  I want the arguing.  I want the slow kisses after breakfast and the struggle to see if we can afford to buy something we really want.  I want to look at what I've done with my life with pride when I get to the end."*
She wants to live with passion.  Her words remind me what it feels like to give life my all, and especially to give God my all.  Love stories remind me that I don't want to live only halfway committed or halfway engaged, even though so often that's so much easier and leaves me much less vulnerable.

3. Love stories remind me that relationships are tricky but worth the trouble.  The plot of every romance novel involves some kind of complication.  The only way to solve the issue is to walk through it.  Things may not always work out as quickly or as nicely in real life as they do in stories, but sometimes they do.  If we don't try, they don't work out at all.

4. Love stories remind me what's important.  When life turns upside down and it's hard to know what's right or what's real, love stories remind me that the Beatles were wise when they sang, "All you need is love..."**  God is love (1 John 4:8) and Jesus told us that love is what matters most in the greatest commandment:  "Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength, and love your neighbors as yourselves."  Remembering to put love at the top of my priorities reminds me to keep God at the top, too.  Remembering love reminds me how important my family is, and the importance of relationships with people.

5. Love stories remind me of the greatest love story of all - God loved us so much that he gave his only son to die for us so that we might have a relationship with him now and forever!  The Bible is one great big love story about God's love for humanity. Whether or not we are feeling the love at this very moment, God's love for us is constant and faithful.  Jesus sacrifice on the cross for us is a vivid display of the depth of God's love.

And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. --Ephesians 3:17-19

May you know the blessings of God's amazing love today and every day!

* By Carolyn Brown
** My favorite version of the Beatles' song is the one in the movie Love Actually (2003)

Monday, February 6, 2017

Psalms & Star Words

The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you." --Psalm 32:8

On January 1 we began reading through the psalms – one psalm per day.  On January 8 we received star words to ponder and consider how God might be guiding us in relation to our words.  Initially I did not consider how these two might be connected – psalms and star words – but it has been my experience so far that the psalms have continued to inform my pondering about my star word.  Has that also been the case for you?

It should not surprise us that this is happening.  After all, the psalms are prayers, and prayers are an important part of our pondering.  We are seeking God about our star words and the Holy Spirit is using the words of the Bible, the psalms, to communicate with us, which is exactly how the Bible tells us the Holy Spirit works.

“But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.  He will glorify me because it is from me that he will receive what he will make known to you.” (John 16:13-14)

My star word is “guidance,” and pondering this word has already caused me to be more intentional about seeking God’s guidance.  I am also noticing how often in the psalms we are assured that God will give us guidance.  Whatever your word is, I am certain that God has guidance for you, too.  I pray that we will all have listening and willing hearts, so that we might hear and do whatever God is telling us.

The abundance of God’s guidance is one way that I am seeing God’s goodness through my star word.  How are you seeing God’s goodness displayed in your word?

Let’s continue to encourage one another in seeking God and finding his goodness by sharing our stories.  You may send them by email, or post them on Facebook , or tweet with the hashtag #wpcstarwords, or comment below.

If you would like to receive the psalm daily reading plan and/or a star word, comment below.

May God continue to bless us as we seek him with all our hearts and give him thanks.

Yours in Christ,
Pastor Melissa

Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Life Jenga

I've been pondering lately all the ways we play Jenga.  Of course, there's the real way with the wooden blocks.  I like the older versions in which the blocks are primary colors, but there's also something to be said for the giant-sized versions that could actually cause bodily harm if you don't get out of the way when they fall.  Jenga is a game that mimics life, especially if in life we do things that aren't entirely wise or have the potential for undesirable consequences.  It's basically tempting fate, rolling the dice, taking a risk.

At my house, we play trash Jenga.  I'll bet many of you do, too.  This is when you keep putting stuff on top of the wastebasket, even though it's full.  The game is lost when finally the pile is so big that something slips off and hits the floor.  The rule at our house is that whoever put that last piece of trash on the pile has lost the game and must then take out the trash.

I also sometimes play migraine Jenga.  There are some things I avoid like the plague because I know they will definitely bring on a migraine - any kind of alcohol, onions, yeasty bread, canned food.  There are a bunch of foods that only sometimes trigger a migraine, especially if I'm careful not to have more than one of them at a time.  Having more than one might be ok, but add a third and I'm really playing Jenga, and four is about like taking blocks out of the very bottom of the stack even when it's super likely that everything will fall.  Some of these foods are things I really like to eat, or are hard to avoid when I'm not the one cooking, and so I'll knowingly play Jenga.  The game is lost when the migraine arrives.

In a variety of ways, we play life Jenga, continuing to do things we know we shouldn't, hoping the tower won't fall quite yet.  We keep on spending, loading up our schedules, eating poorly, going without sleep, skipping exercise, pushing our limits, putting off the inevitable.  Eventually it will catch up with us, but for now we can keep on playing.

Proverbs 19:3 says, "A person’s own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord."

We have no one to blame but ourselves.  We know the consequences, and yet we keep on.  Is it a game to us, like Jenga?  Or a bad habit we just can't break?

Paul says in Romans 7:15 "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do."  We know we need to do better, but so often we don't.  We keep on playing Jenga.  

So what are we to do?  Paul gives us an answer:  "I’ve tried everything and nothing helps. I’m at the end of my rope. Is there no one who can do anything for me? Isn’t that the real question? The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does. He acted to set things right in this life of contradictions where I want to serve God with all my heart and mind, but am pulled by the influence of sin to do something totally different." (Romans 7:24-25 Message Version)

Even this, our relationship with God, is a way we play Jenga...putting off reading the Bible or praying or going to church.  The 3rd century emperor Constantine was impressed by Christianity enough to make it the state religion, but he didn't make it a part of his own life until he was near death.  Spiritual Jenga.

God is so good.  I'm thankful for God's grace shown to us through Jesus Christ, and I'm thankful for the Holy Spirit reminding me that I need to stop (if only I'll listen). I'm thankful for medication that stops the migraine.  And I'm really thankful for extra stretchy reinforced trash bags.

Sunday, January 29, 2017

Psalm 29

Psalm 29 is one of my favorites. Maybe it's because I'm fascinated by the physics of sound and its power.  Maybe it's because I'm reminded that God speaks in such a great variety of ways.  

I've written about God and sound before here.

I'm preaching on Psalm 29 today (listen here) at Westminster Presbyterian Church, Galveston, but as is so often the case, I'm unable in the shortness of a sermon to fully explore all there is to explore in this idea of God's voice and God's power.

Looking at Facebook and Twitter and the news today, there are so many loud voices.  There is so much fear and concern and uncertainty.  It's a scary time for so many and none of us really know how this all turns out.  I want to yell into the chaos and get everyone to be quiet for a moment a let God's peace still the fears.  I want to sing everyone a lullaby that has been my mantra in tough times:

I won't be afraid of the future
Or carry the weight of the past
I'll be still and know that you are God
You're love will always last 1

If music isn't for you, then maybe remembering this prayer will help:

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, 
the courage to change the things I can, 
and the wisdom to know the difference. 
--Reinhold Niebuhr 2

Psalm 29 ends with a reminder, an assurance:

Share your experience in the comments:

How does God speak the loudest to you? 

How is God speaking to you today?

1 I couldn't find a recording but here's a chart of the whole song http://worship.renewalvineyard.org/combined/Be_Still.pdf

2 Find the rest of this prayer here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer

Saturday, January 21, 2017

Weltschmerz and the Golden Rule

Originally published on January 21, 2012

It’s been said that Generation Y is the apathetic generation.  I don’t know if that’s really true, but maybe we, like they, are suffering from:
 weltschmerzAudio Pronunciation\VELT-shmairts\   noun, often capitalized
 1 : mental depression or apathy caused by comparison of the actual state of the world with an ideal state[1]

This morning my husband announced that if someone were to ask him what party he is registered to vote under that he’d have to answer, “I’m in the disillusioned party.”  I imagine he’s not alone in that.  Like many this time of year, we are using the mute button on the television much more than usual to avoid listening to all the campaign ads.  I suppose the polls show that all the mudslinging works, but considering how much we’re all complaining about it, you’d think they’d try something else.  On the other hand, maybe in our current post-Christian state, we actually think mudslinging is ok?

Ron Paul, in response to Gingrich in one of the South Carolina debates, suggested that we should do unto others as we would have them do to us.[2]  Of course he’s right in that, and maybe our weltschmerz comes from wishing that were how we we’re all behaving.  It’s what we’re preaching from our pulpits, or at least what we should be preaching.  But Ron Paul got booed for suggesting that this golden rule could be applied to foreign policy.  Sure, being nice isn’t always fun, but isn’t it still the right thing to do? 

I’m not suggesting we should all be running around hugging everyone and everything, even bare naked penguins, although yesterday was National Penguin Awareness Day[3] …but maybe it’s time to be the country that’s known for being Christian because we’re so good at helping each other out and being respectful of each other.  Isn’t that what our mothers taught us?  Our campaigns would sure be different, and maybe the rest of the world wouldn’t be so anti-American after awhile.

Sorry, I got off in a little bit of weltschmerz.

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Star Words - Justice

The folks at Westminster Presbyterian Church, Galveston drew stars out of a basket on January 8, 2017 as part of our celebration of Epiphany, the day that tradition says the wise men were guided to the baby Jesus by a star.   Each star had a different word on it.  We were challenged to ponder our words and consider how God might use these star words to guide us.  We are sharing the stories of how our words have been in our thoughts already.  Here is one of those stories.

By Jessica Clarke
January 14, 2017

My star word was Justice and I began thinking about it.  First I remembered an old joke I learned in college at LSU (1968) told by a girl from Houston, Texas who was one of my apartment mates that year.  The joke began: “There ain't no justice in this land …” and I shant put the rest down on paper, but oddly enough, it is one of the two jokes I was told in my whole life that I can recite without even thinking about it.  Both are short!  Then I thought about the old saying: "Judge not, that ye be not judged." (Matt 7:1-3)  In other words, we don’t have the right to mete out justice, if we ourselves are full of sins.

I looked up the word Justice on the computer and, of course, it means using “just behavior or treatment”, i.e., “a concern for justice, peace, and genuine respect for people.”  Its synonyms are: fairness, fair play, equity, impartiality, objectivity, neutrality, honesty, righteousness, and morality.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful if our politicians, leaders, friends, etc., as well as ourselves would adhere to all these terms all the time.   

And how timely to get my star word, Justice, since never in my life have I been as disturbed by American politics as I have with this recent election … really to the point of worrying “what is happening to our country.”  This is requiring a lot of prayer.

Then by chance I found an internet article entitled “God is Just” that summed it up perfectly: 
“The Bible tells us that God is just.  This means that He is fair and impartial.  It also means that He hates the ill-treatment and oppression of people and of nature, which He has created.  He hates lying, cheating, and other forms of mistreatment of others.  The fact that God is just means that He can and will judge between right and wrong and He will administer justice in accordance with His standards." —http://www.allaboutGOD.com/god-is-just.htm   
Don-ta-Don! (Beginning of Dragnet theme song played here)
Everyone, please read this blog at the above address!  It says to act justly, God is patiently waiting for us to accept His Grace, He wants us not to have to pay the penalty justice requires for our sins.

Share your story in the comments below.  Also comment if you would like us to send you a star word.

Thursday, January 12, 2017

Star Words - Our First Encounter

I should have known.  I should have seen the signs.

When they asked me to be the star for the nativity play, I couldn't resist the pun - I'm the star of the play!

When I was preparing my epiphany sermon, I was all about guidance and stars.

When I was putting the words on the cut-out stars, I commented on the irony of a star having this word on it.

I didn't put two and two together until after I drew my star word.  I laughed as soon as I saw it:  Guidance.

"Ok, God," I thought. "What are you trying to tell me?  Or are you just enjoying the laugh?"

No, well, maybe yes.  But that was only the beginning.

Of course, as soon as I ask, I begin to receive.  Is this about giving or receiving? Maybe both, but so far only receiving.  In asking the question, I'm already doing what the word says - seeking guidance.

When I searched the word in the Bible app (Youversion), the scriptures that came up were all about inquiring of God. Rebecca did. David did. Jehoshaphat did. Hezekiah did. Saul didn't. Ahaz didn't.*

I will.  I am.  I do.  But not nearly enough.


Psalm 16:8 came up the very same day:  "I keep my eyes always on the Lord."
Psalm 25:9 came up the next day: "Humble people seek guidance."

Message coming through loud and clear.  Now to work on putting this into practice.

Asking God about how.


* Rebecca Genesis 25:22; Saul 1 Chronicles 10:13; David 1 Chronicles 14:14, 2 Samuel 2:1, 2 Samuel 5:19; Ahaz 2 Kings 16:15; Jehoshaphat 1 Kings 22:7; Hezekiah 2 Kings 19:1-4